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Suckhaviors

Suckhaviors. Get it?

Just think “behavior”, but with a sucky nuance.

Genius, right?

I’ve assembled a compilation of the specific ways in which people do the things that drive us nuts.
It’s my way of taking decades worth of observations and translating them into self-awareness, self-help, and even self-deprecation tools.

More importantly, the idea is to give us insight into ourselves in a way that’s difference-making and actionable. If you take a close look at logo and tagline, it’s super important to keep something in mind….the emphasis of this movement is more about

“YOU Don’t Have To”

versus wallowing in

“People Suck”

Getting arms around the most compelling Suckhaviors has been a labor of love for me. And I’m embracing the cliché that says something very cliché-ish about the journey instead of the destination.
You’ll have to forgive me for not remembering exactly how that saying goes.
However, the wisdom in those words speaks to the value of working toward an end result, but not the end result itself. I’m sure it’s much more profound, but that’s my amateur interpretation. So,

If you’re wondering how all of that mumbo jumbo has anything to do with Suckhaviors, I don’t blame you.

I’ll simply say this list is ever-changing and will continue to evolve.

Over time, each Suckhavior will have a dedicated article, along with other helpful resources.

By reading each piece, you’ll be able to sleep better at night knowing that when you’re out and about the next day and hear someone utter, or shout, the phrase

“People Suck”

they’re most likely not talking about you. . And just think of the newfound comforts you’ll enjoy knowing that others aren’t using

our favorite four-letter word

to describe you (or at least not as much as before).
With that in mind,
here’s the most current rundown for your reading

pleasure, and self-betterment:

Control-oholism

An insatiable obsession with trying to control pretty much everything, even what’s completely out of our hands.

Impatience
The inability to embrace delayed gratification.
Self-Unawareness
A mind-numbing obliviousness around how what we do effects those around us.
Conditional Apologies
Attaching strings to “I’m sorry”
Ego-centrism
Acting as if the world revolves around us….it doesn’t.
Entrapment
Asking someone a question….and then arguing with their answer!
wiifM
Over-indulging in the M(e)
Inauthenticity
Being somebody other than our true selves
Flaw-seeking
An inclination to look for the things we don’t like about others
Over-thinking
Justified procrastination in disguise
Hypocrisy
Saying one thing, and not doing that thing.